Demo is the easy part, at least that's what they say. I almost believed them! Right after I took the before pictures Matt began the demo. First off came the shower surround. We had anticipated there being mold underneath the surround, and there was!
Next up Matt removed the drywall which revealed some interesting studwork by the people who had previously remodeled the bathroom on New Years 1987-1988. Lots of different people had written their names and various remarks on the studs along with the date. The biggest surprise for me was just how much room there was between the wall of the bathroom and the wall of the kitchen (and the discovery that our kitchen cabinets are NOT mounted on studs-yikes!).
Next up, of course, is where things started going wrong. The bath did NOT want to come out. It was very heavy and incredibly difficult, and during the process Matt got a little bit swing happy with the hammer and smashed a hole in the one fixture that did not need replacing - the toilet. It looked like it was just superficial damage until we tried flushing it and water exploded all over the place. So we had to say goodbye to our lovely (and expensive) relatively new dual-flush toilet. I wasn't too happy about that one.
I helped Matt take the bath outside and then the girls and I ended up spending the afternoon at Shawna's house as we only have the one bathroom and a toilet is kind of a necessity. While we were away Matt ripped up some of the subfloor that was rotten and replaced it.
Then came the comedy of errors of trying to install the bath. To make a long story short, if you're going to do something, do it right the first time and it will save you a lot of time and hassle! After a few days (no exaggeration) it was finally installed properly and not leaking. I believe the biggest trouble there was that the kit Matt bought that was supposed to have all the pieces needed to hook up the bath, did not. Of course not!
With the initial bath installation finally over and done with, Matt installed the tile backing stuff and began tiling. The most difficult part was cutting the tiles that went around the bath/shower fixtures. I think about a dozen tiles were broken trying to do that, and again, that was a process that took a few days and a variety of different tools. But as the tiles were going up it became a little bit easier to visualise what we'd have at the end of the reno.
Now we are at the point where the bath/shower surround is complete and useable. I finally got to enjoy the new shower for the first time on the weekend and it was great! It felt a bit like being at a hotel, but it is nicer than the last hotel I stayed at!
There is still a ton of stuff left to do, the drywall above the bath and some patching beside it. The rest of the floor needs to be ripped up and the subfloor replaced, as well as taking out the current cabinet and sink. We are probably going to use self-leveling cement and then tile over it, and put in a pedastle sink. Then it is on to the more superficial things like new lighting fixtures and fresh paint!
There were dozens of things Matt had to do that I haven't mentioned, and so far we are at Day 18 of the Bathroom Reno. We have not been living without a toilet for all of this time, Matt bought and installed another (sadly cheaper) dual flush toilet, although not before someone had to make use of Desana's potty. That is all I am going to say about that.
We are really pleased with the new tub, our local Home Depot was out of stock of the model we decided on so we drove across the city to purchase it. It is both deeper and wider than our old tub, and there is the added bonus of it not being surrounded by mold. I'm also really pleased with the built in shelf Matt added to the wall to hold all the misc. shampoo bottles. We installed a curved curtain rod after I saw the one at Shawna's house, and I am really pleased with it. It adds about an extra five inches of elbow room while showering, and getting touched by the shower curtain has always been a pet peeve of mine!
With three weeks left until I start back at work I am really hoping that the project will pick up steam and be finished well before then. You can probably anticipate at least one more 'during' post.
Monday, 29 November 2010
Saturday, 27 November 2010
Pretty (Insecure) Woman
This week I had the opportunity to spend two hours with a dozen other women in their twenties and thirties, discussing our wants, needs and insecurities when it comes to how we dress ourselves.
The one thing that really stood out to me was how universal our insecurities are. I listened to a younger woman talk about her concerns about her figure and needing to cover up or hide certain areas of her body. Meanwhile, as the heaviest woman in the room I looked at her and felt a strange mix of emotions. First, envy, she was petite, young, attractive, dressed trendily, and yet she felt the exact same insecurities that I feel every day.
While I do sometimes struggle with feeling empathy for the woman who wants to lose ten or fifteen pounds, there is nothing to say that my feelings are any more difficult to bear than that womans. Others experiences do not diminish our own, and our internal dialogue can be debilitating.
Lately I've been consciously listening to the way I talk to myself. Depression comes with a whole barrage of self-esteem issues, when I am at my lowest I can't be bothered with makeup because I feel that it is a waste of time and that nothing could improve my appearance. Now when I look in the mirror and hear my voice silently telling me 'You look terrible', 'You're so ugly', 'Why do you even try?' I ask myself, is that what I would say to my best friend? How would I feel if I heard someone say that to her?
Horrified.
I can be much kinder to me when I treat myself like a friend.
Whether you have fifteen or eighty-five pounds to lose, the smaller number doesn't necessarily make your journey easier. Of course I am coming from a purely speculative position here as I am the one with the bigger number to lose.
Image source: Έλενα Λαγαρία
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2010-11-27T14:50:00-08:00
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Thursday, 25 November 2010
The Bathroom Remodel: Before
Our kitchen and bathroom have been on the back of our minds for a long time; two big projects that must be tackled before we can sell the house. With Matt unexpectedly being out of work and the two of us being at home for a little while, we decided to go ahead and do the bathroom renovation.
The problems with the bathroom were:
Here it is in all it's moldly glory:
As you can imagine it has been a lovely relaxing place to take a bath.
Not so much.
Now you have seen the bath and shower that we have been living with for over six years. There is of course a little bit more to the bathroom but I will show you that another time. We haven't started on that part of the room so no before pictures yet.
The bathroom has been a work in progress for 13 days now. The back of the house is an obstacle course! It definitely makes me rethink the idea of living in a house while fully renovating it. I'm also really glad we didn't attempt to do it as a weekend project, it has been a lot more complicated than anticipated!
The problems with the bathroom were:
- the bath made a weird popping noise when you stood in certain places
- The tub surround was very moldy
- The wall at both the head and foot of the bath was rotting
- Outdated fixtures in bath/shower and sink
- Outdated lighting
- Damaged sink and outdated cabinet
- Ugly stick down tiles
Here it is in all it's moldly glory:
As you can imagine it has been a lovely relaxing place to take a bath.
Not so much.
Now you have seen the bath and shower that we have been living with for over six years. There is of course a little bit more to the bathroom but I will show you that another time. We haven't started on that part of the room so no before pictures yet.
The bathroom has been a work in progress for 13 days now. The back of the house is an obstacle course! It definitely makes me rethink the idea of living in a house while fully renovating it. I'm also really glad we didn't attempt to do it as a weekend project, it has been a lot more complicated than anticipated!
Wednesday, 24 November 2010
Family Updates: November
Image source: sleepyjeanie
To family and friends who are interested, here's a little run down on what we've been up to this November:
Desana:
- took right to vegemite sandwiches and regularly has one for breakfast
- continues to work on using the toilet and is for the most part doing very well
- loves to sing I can sing a rainbow and Twinkle, twinkle, little star
- colors inside the lines and likes to drawer pictures of things (then explain to us what they are, we usually can't tell!)
- is slowly learning that she needs to share her toys with Freya
Freya:
- third tooth just broke through and fourth is soon to follow!
- has started climbing on everything, the couch to look out the window, the dining room chair to look in the fish tanks (eek!), LOVES climbing up into her sisters toddler bed
- started standing up from sitting and took her first step on Saturday, now just a few days later she's taking four steps at a time!
- LOVES standing in front of the fish tanks and watching the fish
- is learning to laugh evilly (muahahaha!) as trained by her Daddy
Matt:
- has been playing on a touch football team once a week
- is hard at work remodeling our bathroom
- is reading The Black Prism by Brent Weeks
Amy:
- is having a short article on co-sleeping published in a local publication for the Winnipeg birthing community; The Birth Vine
- scheduled to return to work on December 20th
- is reading Introducing Aunt Dimity; Paranormal Detective by Nancy Atherton
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2010-11-24T07:00:00-08:00
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Monday, 22 November 2010
Back to Blogging
It might not be December 21st, but as far as Winnipeg is concerned I think it's safe to say that Winter is here.
I don't mind the start of winter, every fresh snow fall is beautiful as it looks so white and soft and fluffy. It's once the wind sets in and I actually have to be outside in it that I begin to question my choice almost 7 years ago to move to such a cold and snowy place.
The positive part is that I'm enjoying more frequent cups of hot chocolate and snuggling under blankets.
I'm also really excited to be back to blogging! The blog move was a little complicated and I had a few moments of panic but everything should be up and running again now. The biggest difference that you will probably notice as a reader is the new comment system, so please feel to leave a comment and test it out! If you come across any problems please let me know.
The other big change around here is that we decided to go ahead with our bathroom remodel, so the house has been in upheaval for going on two weeks now. I'll be sharing some before and during pictures with you soon, the after is still awhile away.
Stay warm!
Wednesday, 17 November 2010
Making a change
I've decided to move Journey Mum to wordpress. This might not mean anything to those of you who aren't fellow bloggers, but basically it means that the blog might be unavailable for a few days, and then it will be back and better than ever.
Thank you and hang in there, I'll be back soon!
Thank you and hang in there, I'll be back soon!
Tuesday, 16 November 2010
Blogging Milestone - 100 posts
Image Source: D. Sharon Pruitt
Here we are at my 100th blog post. This blog has gone through a lot of changes since I first started writing it, as have I. From 4 posts in 2008, to 3 in 2009, and this post will make 93 for 2010 so far, it took awhile for things to get going but my blog is one of favorite things now.
When I started out I had no idea that I would be blogging about the things I write about now. I still don't consider myself to be any kind of authority on decorating, or decluttering, or motherhood. What I am is an ordinary woman going through my every day, learning as I go.
My blog really began to pick up steam when I started looking at my days differently. Instead of the rinse and repeat of caring for the girls, struggling to get on top of the mess, failing to find time to do what I wanted to do for me, I slowly pulled out the moments of brightness and pleasure from inside of all of that monotony. Then a wonderful thing happened. The more I focused on those moments, the more I experienced them. My life transformed from feeling like it was groundhog day every day, to a life I actively participated and found enjoyment in.
One of the things that initially held me back from blogging was my fear of what the people who know me in the offline world would think of what I had to say. Looking back, that was a pretty silly fear. So far I haven't received a negative remark, in fact I am always surprised when people tell me how much they enjoy and look forward to reading my blog. Surprised and very pleased!
I'm not saying my life is perfect. In many ways it's not. I still have dark moments every single day where I wonder how I am going to get through some struggle or anxiety in my life. But I also have a greater respect for the blessings and abundance in my life.
To celebrate reaching 100 posts I thought we'd take a look back at the five posts that attracted the most views from you, my readers.
Sunday, 14 November 2010
Thrown together soup
Last night I threw together a soup with some pantry and freezer items. I'm trying to cook more with the food we have in the house, since it's already been paid for!
2 cans of mushroom soup
2 chicken breasts (cut in to small pieces and cooked with Mrs Dash herb and garlic spices)
A few pinches of epicure chicken stock
Some splashes of milk
Some leftover everyday style mixed sundried tomato dip
Some leftover and chopped rotini pasta
1-2 cups of thawed and chopped mixed vegetables
Shredded cheese
Four frozen cubes of avocado (melted in the pot)
I think I went a little bit too heavy on the chicken stock, it sure was flavoursome! I served myself in one of my brand new everyday style mugs. These mugs are the perfect size for a wonderful hot chocolate, and as it turns out, a nice big cup of soup too. For the finishing touch I added a sprinkling of shredded cheese on top and a piece of buttered toast for dipping.
Friday, 12 November 2010
DIY Message In A Bottle
As I was sorting through and decluttering some of my memorabilia, I came across some items that I thought would be beautiful to have out on display. I decided to combine my keepsakes with some spice bottles that I found for 10 cents each at a yard sale this summer.
Special Ingredients:
3 old spice bottles
a ball of twine
mixed amethyst and hematite stones
6 pewter angel coins
I placed the amethyst and hematite stones in the bottles, allowing room to slip the angel coins in at the sides, then put a few more stones on top. It took a little bit of maneuvering to make it look just right. Next up I just cut a long length of twine and wrapped it around the bottle neck, crossing it until the whole neck was covered. Then I knotted it and cut off the excess twine so that only a pretty little amount remained. Incredibly easy!
I love the rustic look of the twine, the little frays flying all over the place. It's a great way to spice up a window sill, plus now my pretty stones are no longer hidden out of sight but prettily out on display. I could use any of these bottles as a paper weight, or choose to keep a specific one close by based on the message of the coins - Hope, Peace, Harmony, Love, Healing, Prosperity.
Not bad for 30 cents!
P.S. Today I am linking up to Frugal Friday at The Shabby Nest
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2010-11-12T20:00:00-08:00
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Wednesday, 10 November 2010
More Mommy Necklaces for this Mummy
Every time I find myself making a post about jewelry I can't help but laugh. I'm really not a big jewellery person but it sure doesn't seem that way!
Anyone who knows me in the real world could tell you that every time they see me I am wearing a Mommy Necklace. I can say right up front that I am not being paid to write about this, I just LOVE my Mommy Necklaces.
A few weeks back MamaBargains had some Mommy Necklaces on for 50% off and I snatched up three! One was a color I'd been wanting for awhile (Posh - purple, of course) and the other two were mostly impulse purchases. Happily they arrived in the mail today. These three new necklaces bring my total Mommy Necklace collection to... wait for it... SEVEN! That means I can literally wear a different necklace every day!
My favorite styles are the dangling donuts because I find them fun to play with, they're great for keeping Freya busy while she's nursing or being carried in the ergo, and I love the 28" length.
The best thing about these necklaces is that they are so darn kid proof. If tugged on they just unlatch rather than being broken or beads scattering everywhere. Extra bonus for me since I'm naturally clumsy and perhaps even more likely to break things than my kids are!
The Twilight necklace is a different design where the dangling donut can actually come off so the necklace can be worn in two different styles.
It's nice to have a few more options to spice up my regular Mum-wear. :)
Anyone who knows me in the real world could tell you that every time they see me I am wearing a Mommy Necklace. I can say right up front that I am not being paid to write about this, I just LOVE my Mommy Necklaces.
A few weeks back MamaBargains had some Mommy Necklaces on for 50% off and I snatched up three! One was a color I'd been wanting for awhile (Posh - purple, of course) and the other two were mostly impulse purchases. Happily they arrived in the mail today. These three new necklaces bring my total Mommy Necklace collection to... wait for it... SEVEN! That means I can literally wear a different necklace every day!
My favorite styles are the dangling donuts because I find them fun to play with, they're great for keeping Freya busy while she's nursing or being carried in the ergo, and I love the 28" length.
Left to right: Urban, Twilight, Posh
The Twilight necklace is a different design where the dangling donut can actually come off so the necklace can be worn in two different styles.
It's nice to have a few more options to spice up my regular Mum-wear. :)
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2010-11-10T03:00:00-08:00
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Sunday, 7 November 2010
Living in the moment
There are times in my life when I long to be a child again. To be blissfully unaware of the complications of adult life, of the responsibilities. There are times when I long for someone to tuck me in to bed as snug as a bug in a rug and to be able to fall quickly and peacefully asleep without a worry in the world.
It is so hard to recapture that feeling as an adult.
Some might call it delusional, but for the past month I have been trying, for the most part successfully, to just live in the moment and let tomorrow take care of itself. Worrying is an almost lifelong habit that is incredibly hard to shake. What a useless habit! All that worrying does is blow everything out of proportion and make you think of the worst case scenario for any given situation. Is that any way to live?
Instead I am occasionally choosing to ignore the undone dishes and enjoy the weight of my sleeping baby in my arms. For a few short years she gets to enjoy that feeling of safety and comfort, and I get to enjoy being the center of her world. I love her goofy little smile when she rolls over in her sleep and opens her eyes just long enough to see that I'm still there. Meanwhile my first baby girl is quite grown up and independent now, but still comes running to have me kiss her 'owwies' better.
It won't always be that way.
It is so hard to recapture that feeling as an adult.
Some might call it delusional, but for the past month I have been trying, for the most part successfully, to just live in the moment and let tomorrow take care of itself. Worrying is an almost lifelong habit that is incredibly hard to shake. What a useless habit! All that worrying does is blow everything out of proportion and make you think of the worst case scenario for any given situation. Is that any way to live?
It won't always be that way.
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2010-11-07T13:00:00-08:00
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Wednesday, 3 November 2010
Back from Staycation
Hello friends!
We are back from our 'staycation', playing tourists in our own city while my Dad and Step-Mum visited. I'm happy to report that I missed blogging which is a sure sign that it is meaningful to me.
I spent the majority of the past week like this:
It's been a little chilly but apart from a brief little snowfall last Friday, thankfully, the snow and cold held off while we visited and spent lots of time outdoors. Oh, and if anyone is trying to decide on the right baby carrier to buy, I highly recommend buying an Ergo! As you can see my pumpkin regularly falls asleep when she is in the ergo and it's not a great strain on my back to wear her. I love it!
We have lots of catching up to do but for now I will just leave you with a look at the surprise that came in the mail this morning.
Those beautiful pillow covers were on my etsy favorites and my Mum bought them for me! Thank you Mum. :) You can see more lovely pillow covers by purplepajamas on etsy.
I'm looking forward to catching up with you all!
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